Gender Failure

Ivan E. Coyote and Rae Spoon are accomplished, award-winning writers, musicians, and performers; they are also both admitted "gender failures. " In their first collaborative book, Ivan and Rae explore and expose their failed attempts at fitting into the gender binary, and how ultimately our expectations and assumptions around traditional gender roles fail us all.

Contributors

Rae Spoon

Ivan Coyote is the award-winning author, co-author or co-editor of eleven books, including Tomboy Survival Guide, shortlisted for the Hilary Weston Writers' Trust Nonfiction Prize and an American Library Association Stonewall Honor Book. They are also the creator of four short films as well as three CDs that combine storytelling with music. Ivan is a seasoned stage performer and an audience favourite at storytelling, literary, film, and folk music festivals. Their latest book is Rebent Sinner. Ivan lives in Vancouver.

Ivan E. Coyote

Rae Spoon is a non-binary musician, producer, and author from Treaty 7 (Calgary) living on Lekwungen territory (Victoria). Rae is the author of the Lambda Literary Award finalist First Spring Grass Fire (2012), and co-author (with Ivan Coyote) of Gender Failure (2014). Rae was awarded a Dayne Ogilvie Prize Honour of Distinction by the Writers' Trust of Canada. They are the subject of a National Film Board documentary entitled My Prairie Home (2013), which screened at film festivals internationally, including the 2014 Sundance Film Festival. They have released ten albums for which they have been nominated for two Polaris Prizes and a Western Canada Music award. They are the founder of Coax Records, dedicated to work by marginalized musicians traditionally underrepresented in the music industry.

Chapter Contributors Pages Year Price
In these introductions, trans artists Ivan Coyote and Rae Spoon explain how they conceived of a show explicitly centred on trans experience.
; 10 $1.00
In this chapter, trans masculine writers Spoon and Coyote describe feeling different than other young girls growing up, and their experiences with ostracization for not identifying with …
; 14 $1.40
In this chapter, Coyote describes their deep friendship with Rosie, a trans woman, set in Vancouver’s West End while they were nineteen.
8 $0.80
In this chapter, Spoon describes their childhood in a Pentecostal church in northwest Calgary, where strict gender roles shaped daily life.
8 $0.80
In this chapter, Coyote critiques the ritual of reading the names of murdered trans women at vigils while living trans women remain excluded from shelters and social spaces.
8 $0.80
In this chapter, Spoon traces their formative bond with cowboy culture in Alberta, centred on their Uncle Carl and the three oil-rig uncles who toiled through the prairie seasons.
8 $0.80
In this chapter, Coyote recounts their experience with chest binding.
10 $1.00
In this chapter, Spoon explains how gender roles in white, working-class Prairie communities shaped their personal identity.
10 $1.00
In this chapter, Spoon describes their relationship with their body, and recounts a surgical consultation for a bilateral mastectomy.
14 $1.40
In this chapter, Coyote discusses their gender self-discovery in Vancouver, beginning at nineteen, when encounters with trans men at the Legion on East Pender make transitioning feel tangible.
14 $1.40
In this chapter, Spoon traces their evolving relationship with their body, from a Pentecostal childhood marked by bodily restriction to a late-2000s reckoning with gender politics and eating disorders.
8 $0.80
This chapter is a series of messages from Coyote to their friend Lynn, documenting their decision to undergo top surgery in Vancouver and their recovery over roughly the first ten days.
6 $0.60
In this chapter, Spoon traces their experience of becoming a transgender country singer in Canada, a journey spanning the mid-2000s through the early 2010s.
10 $1.00
In this chapter, Coyote describes their experience with top surgery, and a CBC radio debate questioning butch identity.
8 $0.80
In this chapter, Spoon describes how in January 2008, they uploaded a home-recorded video from Weimar, Germany, singing a song about Canada’s colonial history. Viewers fixated on whether …
6 $0.60
This chapter is Coyote’s letter to their extended family in Vancouver, in which they disclose their non-binary gender identity and their decision to undergo a double mastectomy.
8 $0.80
In this chapter, Spoon describes their transition from country and folk singing to electronic indie rock after moving to Weimar, Germany.
8 $0.80
In this chapter, Coyote describes their recovery from a double mastectomy, arguing that healing demands unlearning masculine self-reliance.
6 $0.60
In this chapter, Spoon describes their repeated rejection within the gay male community during the mid-to-late 2000s.
6 $0.60
In this chapter, Coyote describes swimming for the first time post-top surgery.
8 $0.80
In this chapter, Spoon describes their brief experiment with a drag persona named Cocolene, born from a music-industry prank in Montreal and Toronto.
5 $0.50
In this chapter, Coyote reflects on their identity as a butch.
4 $0.40
In this chapter, Coyote describes their journey from adopting "he" pronouns to choosing the singular "they."
6 $0.60
In this chapter, Coyote discusses the harrasment that transgender people face in public washrooms.
8 $0.80
In this chapter, Spoon reflects on being misgendered in public spaces.
8 $0.80
In this chapter, Coyote describes their relationship with the singular "they" pronoun and discusses its roots in English stretching back to Chaucer.
6 $0.60
In this chapter, Spoon discusses the vulnerability of public visibility as a trans performer in small towns and the small moments of connection that make them worth it.
6 $0.60
In this chapter, Coyote discusses the tension between butch and trans male identities and how both communities face a scarcity of representation.
6 $0.60
In this chapter, Spoon discusses gender as a narrative one constructs and revises across a lifetime, tracing their movement through identities—lesbian, transgender man, and gender-neutral …
6 $0.60
In this chapter, Coyote discusses the emotional toll of existing outside the gender binary.
4 $0.40
In this chapter Spoon introduces the concept of gender retirement, a refusal to identify within the gender binary, building on their decision to adopt the pronoun "they."
8 $0.80