Staying Power

On Queerness, Inheritances, and the Families We Choose

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Staying Power, Zena Sharman’s memoir in essays, is a beautiful and honest journey of care work, grief, parenting, and chosen family in the wake of intergenerational trauma. Exploring the lessons and inheritances of being raised by survivors of complex traumas, the book challenges the notion that one must be healed in order to parent well and celebrates the transformative power of queer family-making beyond gay marriage and assimilation into the nuclear family.

Contributors

Zena Sharman

Zena Sharman is an essayist and non-fiction writer whose work explores themes of community, identity, and care. She is the editor of several anthologies, including The Care We Dream Of and the Lambda Literary award-winning The Remedy (both Arsenal Pulp Press). Staying Power is her debut memoir. In 2026, Zena was awarded Douglas College's highest honour—Honorary Fellow—for her contribution to Canadian literature and dedication to supporting inclusive care at all stages of life. She lives in Duncan, BC.

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This chapter is a note to readers regarding the content of the book and a description of the Trauma Archive, started by Sharman’s mother, a survivor and activist who founded support groups …
26 $2.60
In this chapter, Sharman describes their grief over their mother Lynne’s death from chronic obstructive pulmonary disease.
26 $2.60
In this chapter, Sharman describes their slow reclamation of selfhood after the dissolution of a relationship.
20 $2.00
In this chapter, Sharman describes her experiences in a new relationship post-divorce.
26 $2.60
In this chapter, Sharman describes changing co-parenting relationships in her life and how that impacted her.
20 $2.00
In this chapter, Sharman discusses how the legal standard governing custody disputes has shaped queer family life in Canada and the United States.
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In this chapter, Sharman discusses queer femme identity, feminist motherhood, and the cultural legacy of Dolly Parton’s 1980 film 9 to 5.
18 $1.80
In this chapter, Sharman discusses the complex relationship between a queer parent, known as ZeeZee, and the cultural script of motherhood.
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In this chapter, Sharman describes her experiences at a queer "not-wedding."
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