The New Masculinity

A Roadmap for a 21st-Century Defintion of Manhood

From AskMen senior editor and non-binary writer Alex Manley comes The New Masculinity: A Roadmap for a 21st-Century Definition of Manhood, a guide for escaping the shackles of toxic masculinity, unlearning what it means to be a man, and pushing back against the various ways masculinity teaches people to hurt rather than help, and to harm rather than heal. Manley charts a course for a wholly new future of the self that’s neither particularly manly nor particularly masculine, but responsive, invested, and caring.

Having written and edited for a men’s website for seven and a half years, Manley has seen up close how angry, scared, and lonely men are, and how entrenched in a culture war they feel. This book is a guide for unlearning the habits that perpetuate that harm. There are an infinite number of ways to be a person, but to access them fully, men first need to unlearn the restrictions of modern gender roles and the ways society has taught them to shave parts of themselves off until their masculinity comes before their humanity.

Contributors

Alex Manley

A graduate of Concordia University’s creative writing program, Alex Manley is a Montreal-based editor, translator, and award-winning writer whose work has been published by AskMen, Hazlitt, The Walrus, Vulture, Catapult, Electric Literature, Maisonneuve magazine, THIS magazine, and the Literary Review of Canada, among others.

Chapter Contributors Pages Year Price
In the introduction to their book, Alex Manley explores the recent cultural shift to a wider societal acceptance of feminist values. Manley discusses how the gender revolution has encouraged …
24 $2.40
In this chapter, Manley discusses cross-gender friendship. They break down the way societally enforced concepts of gender and sexuality influence a lack in male interest to explore platonic …
13 $1.30
In this chapter, Manley examines how traditional masculinity informs an expectation that domestic work will be performed by women.
16 $1.60
In this chapter, Manley discusses how traditional masculinity limits the creative expression and consumption in young men by encouraging gendered understandings of music, film, and other various …
17 $1.70
In this chapter, Manley explores the dynamics of male friendship and how these connections are limited by categorizating vulnerability as weak and effeminate. Examining how traditional masculine …
16 $1.60
In this chapter, Manley examines how traditional masculinity cultivates heterosexual hook-up culture.
16 $1.60
In this chapter, Manley discusses how socialized conceptions of masculinity inform how men care for their bodies and view their physical health.
17 $1.70
In this chapter, Manley examines how socialized conceptions of masculinity stifle emotional literacy and encourage men to hide any struggles with mental health.
17 $1.70
In this chapter, Manley explores how concepts of masculinity encourage men to employ violence in interpersonal relationships, and on a larger societal scale.
17 $1.70
In this chapter, Manley examines the concept of “bro code” and how this unwritten rule book influences the behaviour of young men.
16 $1.60
In this chapter, Manley discusses how masculine ideology creates limitations on which sexual activities heterosexual men consider acceptable to explore.
16 $1.60
In this chapter, Manley discusses the pressure men feel to visually self-express in a way that aligns with traditional masculine ideology.
14 $1.40
In this chapter, Manley explores how masculine ideology encourages a misogynistic attitude towards female voices.
16 $1.60
In this chapter, Manley discusses how young men form their identity and self-image, examining how classic masculinity and the current climate of the North American workforce impact this process.
18 $1.80
In the conclusion to their book, Manley provides their own personal experience with gender identity, and summarizes their previously stated sentiments on classic masculinity and gender.
19 $1.90